The #1 Mistake

I’ve been working out for 20+ years (holy cow huh?!).

This is the #1 mistake I see people make:

They try to change everything at once.

Most people go all-in on a “new me” strategy that looks like:

  • Cut out carbs
  • Start working out 6 days/week
  • Sleep more
  • Drink a gallon of water
  • Track every calorie
  • Stop eating sugar
  • Meditate
  • Meal prep
  • Hit 10k steps

…all starting Monday.

That approach works for about 7-10 days before life punches them in the face – kids get sick, work explodes, someone brings cupcakes into the office – and suddenly the whole plan collapses.

Why this is the biggest mistake??

Because fat loss that lasts doesn’t come from intensity.

It comes from consistency.

And consistency only happens when you focus on a few key habits you can actually sustain on your busiest weeks, not just your perfect ones.

What actually works:

  • Nail your protein intake
  • Lift weights 2-3x/week
  • Walk daily
  • Sleep 6-8 hours
  • Drink water
  • Be 80% consistent, not 100% perfect

If you’re not seeing results, it’s almost never because you’re not “disciplined enough.”

It’s because you made the process way harder than it needs to be.

👉 If you’re done starting over every Monday, send me a message – [email protected] – with the word “READY” in the subject, and I’ll show you what actually works.

Author

Michelle Densmore

Michelle Densmore, CPT, LCSW is the founder and co-owner of Lucky13Fitness, a personal training and fitness coaching company located in Burlington, on the north shore of Boston, Massachusetts. Michelle uses her education and expertise in both the physical and mental health fields to help her clients reach their goals through behavior change. Michelle believes that "Training the Brain" is the key to change in any aspect of life, especially in the gym. Michelle trains and supports her clients’ brains as well as their bodies via (en)Vision coaching, personal training, and virtual coaching. Michelle is also a featured fitness writer for Runner's World, Zelle, Wicked Local newspapers, and has been featured on BostInno and The Story Exchange. When she’s not training clients, running Bootcamp or teaching a Tabata class, Michelle can be found training herself for a road race or triathlon. She loves to run, lift heavy things, travel, and spend time with her family and animals.

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